Something to Think About

Jesus gave his life for me, to take my life from me, to live his life through me. —Alistair Begg

Pastor's Corner

Please! Teach your children to obey!

“I am writing this to plead with Christian parents to require obedience of their children. I am moved to write this by watching young children pay no attention to their parents’ requests; with no consequences...Last week I saw two things that prompted this article. One was the killing of 13-year-old Andy Lopez in Santa Rosa, California, by police who thought he was about to shoot them with an assault rifle. It was a toy gun. What made this relevant was that the police said they told the boy two times to drop the gun. Instead he turned it on them. They fired. I do not know the details of that situation or if Andy even heard the commands. So I can’t say for sure he was insubordinate. So my point here is not about young Lopez himself. It’s about a “what if.” What if he heard the police, and simply defied what they said? If that is true, it cost him his life. Such would be the price of disobeying proper authority…I witnessed such a scenario in the making on a plane last week. I watched a mother preparing her son to be shot. I was sitting behind her and her son, who may have been seven years old. He was playing on his digital tablet. The flight attendant announced that all electronic devices should be turned off for takeoff. He didn’t turn it off. The mother didn’t require it. As the flight attendant walked by, she said he needed to turn it off and kept moving. He didn’t do it. The mother didn’t require it. One last time, the flight attendant stood over them and said that the boy would need to give the device to his mother. He turned it off. When the flight attendant took her seat, the boy turned his device back on, and kept it on through the takeoff. The mother did nothing. I thought to myself, she is training him to be shot by police.”(From an article by John Piper)

Parents, obedience is not optional, God requires it of our children and if we as parents neglect to teach our children to obey God’s appointed authorities we set them up to be out of step with God’s will for them. Requiring obedience from our children is hard but it is possible and it’s worth it.

Obedient children are gracious and humble. Disobedient children are simply, brats. They are neither fun to be around, nor happy themselves. They are demanding and insolent. Their “freedom” is not a blessing to them or others. They are free the way a boat without a rudder is free. They are the victims of their whims. Sooner or later, these whims will be challenged and that will never be a good encounter. But remember, requiring obedience is not the same as requiring perfection.

Parents, you can do this. It is a hard season. I’ve spent more than sixty percent of my life in it. But there is divine grace for this, and you will be richly rewarded.

Pastor Don

Something to Think About

We can stand affliction better than we can stand prosperity, for in prosperity we forget God. —D.L. Moody

Pastors Corner

A Living Gospel Message

There is no message more central to human existence than the gospel of Christ's death and resurrection. Long before the cross, God decided that he would embed within humanity a picture, a portrait of the gospel: marriage. The great mystery of marriage, a mystery that could be revealed only after the cross, is that marriage has always been and will always be about the gospel. The relationship of a husband and wife is to be a constant pointer to the relationship of Christ and his church. Before God created Eve for Adam, God had His Son’s bride, the church in mind. This means that even though God knew we would be unfaithful, He would marry us anyway. Even though He knew the great pain and suffering He would have to go through to redeem us, He created us anyway. Is this not the greatest demonstration of selfless love? What an inspiration this is for us to see our marriages as a blessing and not a burden; to find fulfillment in our marriages; to see our marriages as something worth fighting for. Our world mocks marriage, yet marriage, when lived as God would have it is the greatest blessing we could have.

Pastor Don